should come easy, but it's hard when the people around you are sour, pessimistic, negative, and always complaining. So what do you do? The easy answer is to rid of the negativity.. but you can't when you love them.
More than loving them, ridding of them would be ridding them of you, which you feel bad about. Not in a presumptuous way (though no matter how I spin it, it sounds arrogant), but in a way that is almost nurturing and too caring. You love too much, which seems to outweigh the importance of your own happiness.
Deep inside, you'd wish they'd love you enough to leave.